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Friday April 25, 2008

Really and truly, what next?  After the events of yesterday I was certainly looking forward to things going better today.  You know, you go to bed and the next morning things are just so different.  And after eight loads of laundry, cleaning the house, and putting six more meals in the freezer (can you tell my first baby didn’t rank very high on the most contented baby list the first two months), I was completely exhausted.

I woke up soon after three for that uterine induced bathroom trek and couldn’t go back to sleep because of contractions.  No, not the “good productive, wow this is here” kind.  The “annoying, bring you back when you’re just about to drift off to sleep” kind.  So I lay there in bed thinking a million thoughts not the least of which included huge grattitude that I’d slept at all after pulling something wrong in my shoulder yesterday during the escapade with Goldi.

Around 4:15 I heard a pop downstairs that didn’t sound like the normal sounds our house makes.  I woke David Lee who went to check it out while I lay in bed feeling really dumb for waking him.  You know, women hear everything and think every bad thing imaginable.  But then as he went down the steps I heard other sort of shuffling noises.  He calmly came back upstairs and asked me what we should use to clean water off the floor.

Water?  What water?  “The line to the ice maker burst and there’s water all over the kitchen floor,” he said.  He grabbed towels.  I decided it must not be too big a deal; but grabbed another armful and headed down after him just in case.  Water all over the floor.  No kidding.  I mean, you could have sloshed, not just slipped.  The towels barely touched it.  The pop I heard wasn’t the line popping, it was the floor shifting from the moisture.  And the shuffling wasn’t shuffling at all.  It was water hissing.

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For the next 45 minutes we sopped water with the mop and towels, wrung them out, and did it again.  (Those mop buckets with the wringer thing on them are an awesome invention.)  I didn’t realize how bad it really was until we took the towels downstairs to the washer and saw water steadily dripping down into the basement.  Which means tearing insulation out of the ceiling tonight. 

About every ten minutes I keep thinking, “thank you, God.  thank you, God.  thank you, God.”  Because of a lot of things.  Like:

I was awake and heard the pop.  By the time David Lee would have come downstairs an hour later things would have been significantly worse.

The water didn’t go into the living room where it is carpeted.

The basement area below the kitchen is unfinished and so, unharmed except for the insulation.

With all Adam’s issues yesterday, I couldn’t be grateful enough that he was in bed and didn’t see the mess and disruption.

I have a trim carpenter husband who wisely took the toe kick off the island so we can dry it out underneath.

It happened at night when David Lee was home.  I would have despaired with that mess on my own.

It did NOT happen while we were at the hospital and gone for days.  I’ve always said I’d rather build then remodel and having to redo hardwood flooring and kitchen cabinets with a newborn would be enough to make me move out. 

The “last will and testament” of David Lee and Michelle were in an envelope on the floor by the door, not three feet away from the frig so that I would remember to take them to a safe deposit today.  Unharmed.  The island is heavy enough to have pulled the gallons of water that way instead of toward the door.

Only a few low places on the cabinets are already cracking from swelling.

By 5:15 I was laughing.  I mean, it’s just all so bizarre.  If anyone would have told me I’d sit down and drink coffee with David Lee at 5:30 this morning I would have scoffed.  I fell in love with him all over again this morning.  I love that he stays so calm in a crisis.  He just calmly and efficiently takes care of things.  None of this tear around, freak out about how the house is going to be ruined and the island is going to be ruined and we’ll have mildew in the house and iyiyiyiyiyi this and iyiyiyiyiyyiyiy that.  Not even with it happening on a morning when he has a deadline at work that had him at the office an hour early yesterday and supposedly again this morning.  He’s off to get fans from his family since we don’t have a portable one in the house.  And I am wondering if maybe, just maybe, we’ll get to have a good night of sleep tonight.

12 thoughts on “Friday April 25, 2008

  1. singingrachel

    That exact thing happened to us except that we had overnight guests and the guys had gotten up early to do something and here there was water all over….. I only heard about it though as I slept right through it… bless you for helping him.  I liked the way you looked at all the positives.  Hope that baby decides to come soon for you.  I don’t think it would hurt you to kick back and relax today after all you got accomplished yesterday.  wow.

  2. itsayoderworld

    I know how it feels—only it was our washer drain hose that disconnected awhile back.  At least all of my kitchen & laundry rm. appliances got moved & cleaned under.   But what an awful discovery at that time of the morning!  You take it easy today—what if baby chooses tonight to come?

  3. justcallmeM

    Not a fun thing to wake up to!! Do you have laminate flooring in your kitchen? One of my friends had their dishwasher flood out their kitchen, dining, living area in the middle of the night. They quickly pulled up the carpet which saved it but all their hardwood had to be replaced. Hope you have a quiet, uneventful day!

  4. natover

    Bless you heart! Maybe God is giving you these trials now & is going to bless you with a really really good baby. =) We’ll pray that’s the way it goes. And hopefully the baby will come soon so at least you can sleep the sleep of exhaustion when you are in bed & not lay there having to ponder things. I hate nights like that. They are becoming all to frequent with the growing of the belly. Oh well, only 20 more weeks to go. =)

  5. onebusymom

    You poor girl !!!! If reminded me of when a water pipe burst in our first house and we were gone and came home to find water EVERYWHERE. I went even into our bedrooms. It was a huge mess. DL sounds like Lavon — just stays calm when I want to fuss and fume 🙂

  6. RallyJan

    Wow, you must be having the nesting instinct to get all that work done! And the water mess….glad you can see the good in it b/c I’m not sure what I do right now if that would happen. Just hope all our hoses stay intact!

    Adam sounds like a little boy at my house. I think that sometimes growing up is tough. They want to be grown-up but the baby side still comes out at times.

    And hope that baby doesn’t go over-time!

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